How To Be Yourself...

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Many of us are who our parents, background, society or/and religion have shaped us into. We simply conform to the status quo, and become like everyone else. Even when we think we are finally liberated from trying too hard to please the world, we still tend to want to be like people we truly admire. I only wonder who the people we want to be like want to be like. Regardless, the most ideal person you are created be is YOURSELF. The idea of being oneself however is not as simple as it sounds. We live in a confused world and it is increasingly more difficult to communicate with oneself today than ever. The following 5 simple steps will guide you to be yourself despite personality anarchy that threatens the human race;... 


1. DISCOVER YOURSELF...
 

How To Be Yourself Gideon Banks Apr 11, 2015 Lifestyle, Lists No Comments 61 SHARES Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Many of us are who our parents, background, society or/and religion have shaped us into. We simply conform to the status quo, and become like everyone else. Even when we think we are finally liberated from trying too hard to please the world, we still tend to want to be like people we truly admire. I only wonder who the people we want to be like want to be like. Regardless, the most ideal person you are created be is YOURSELF. The idea of being oneself however is not as simple as it sounds. We live in a confused world and it is increasingly more difficult to communicate with oneself today than ever. The following 5 simple steps will guide you to be yourself despite personality anarchy that threatens the human race; 1. DISCOVER YOURSELF. examine-your-pathAs obvious as this may sound, many people get it wrong. It is pretty easy to. Yet it is the first and most important step to being you. How can you be yourself, when you don’t have an idea who really you are meant to be in the first place? You have to learn to pay attention to yourself and listen to your own inner voice. Ask yourself why you do what you do. Query your every actions and reactions until you learn your likes, dislikes, persona, uniqueness, passion, talents, dreams and everything. Isolate your strengths from weaknesses, and understand what is important to you and what is not. It takes a lot of efforts and disciplined concentration to achieve this in our noisy world. You might also require feedbacks from friends and associate to achieve your objective. Ask them to criticize you and have them do it genuinely. Most importantly, handle their criticisms with maturity and don’t be disheartened if their lists also include some awfully unpleasant things about you. Make them comfortable enough to be able to tell you anything and everything, without any reservations or fear of hurting you. Keep the end in mind. It is towards making the greatest personal discovery of your life – discovering yourself!...

1. DISCOVER YOURSELF....

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